Tips for Breaking a Bad Habit

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By Barbara Kay

Breaking a bad habit can be difficult, but if you follow some simple steps it will be easier. Whether it is kicking a smoking habit, controlling eating habits or something else, you can do it.

Follow the steps below to be a success.

1. Set a date that you will quit the bad habit.

2. Start by preparing yourself. Write a list of all of the reasons you would like to quit and tape it in a place where you will read it at least once a day. More often is even better.

3. Now visualize yourself without the bad habit. If you are trying to eat less, think about how you will look once you meet your goal. Keep this image in your mind. If you want to quit smoking, think about how good you will smell and how much healthier you will be. Whatever the habit is that you're trying to quit think about how much better off you will be once you quit.

4. Practice by cutting down. It helps to have a friend or relative that is trying to quit the same habit to do it with you. Talk to them if you are having a hard time. Give each other pep talks.


Shredded tobacco for pipe smoking.
Shredded tobacco for pipe smoking.
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5. Continue to visualize yourself completely free of the habit. Close your eyes and block out all sounds and continue to think about yourself as successful and getting through any situation that will be hard.

6. Now quit. Get all cigarettes or junk food out of the house or whatever it is that tempts you.

7. Rely on a higher power. Pray for help.

8. Keep yourself busy to keep your mind off the habit. Try a different routine during the day if possible. Put away things that will remind you of the habit.

9. Expect that you might feel depressed during this time. A loss of a habit can make you go into mourning just like the loss of a friend. If you are trying to eat less, you'll feel hungry. Eat celery and carrot sticks. For most habits, this is a good idea.

10. Replace the bad habit with a good habit. Drinking water is a good replacement for almost any habit. Sip the water slowly and enjoy it. If this doesn't work, use a toothpick.

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10. After the first week, reward yourself for your success in some little way. Some ideas are going to a theatre or doing something special with the family. It could be a small item you've needed for a long time. After a month of success, reward yourself again.

11. Continue all of the above steps. Once you've kicked the habit, be proud of yourself.

I wish you all the best in meeting your goals.


Comments

jenp123 profile image

jenp123 6 months ago

Interesting hub. Do you agree with the use of visualization boards? It seems like you are interested in this idea...

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Barbara Kay Hub Author 6 months ago

jenp123, I'm not sure what you mean by boards. This technique was shared with me by an athlete. Some teams use it to perform better. It seems to help and gives you the confidence that you can do it. At least it worked for me.

Thanks for commenting.

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Just Ask Susan Level 8 Commenter 6 months ago

These are great tips, a few of them I've used myself. They do work!

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Barbara Kay Hub Author 6 months ago

Just Ask Susan, Thanks for commenting. I've tried a few myself too and they were successful for me too.

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CloudExplorer Level 8 Commenter 5 months ago

Nice advice here, I actually quit smoking many years back, because I felt that I shouldn't have never started and also was feeling some health issue's of breathing coming along.

I'm so happy I quit, because I feel great today & smell very clean as well. Great hub much success to you.

I will continue to read your hubs from this point on. Voted up as useful & an awesome advice to follow for those needing to kick bad habits.

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nityanandagaurang 3 months ago

Your all steps to leave bad habits are very pratical.By gos sake i don't have any bad habit,but my friend have.I will surely tell them about this hub.Very useful hub Barbara Kay.Voting it up.

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Barbara Kay Hub Author 3 months ago

nityanadagaurang, It must be nice not to have any bad habits. Thanks for commenting and voting it up.

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